Week after week, you sit in church…alone. You are one of many women across the country who are spiritually mismatched; committed to a spouse who does not share your faith.

You may feel abandoned by your spouse or forgotten by your church. You may feel like you have to live out your faith in survival mode, guarding the spiritual flame yet never feeling free to share it.

But don’t lose hope! God wants you to thrive—not just survive. Winning Him Without Words presents 10 Christ-centered keys to thriving in your spiritually unequal relationship. In the pages of this book, you’ll learn from real life stories how to:

commit to Christian community
release your spouse to God’s capable hands
find peace in your relationships with Christ and with your spouse
continue your pursuit of a growing faith
and to love your spouse with fresh enthusiasm

God wants every marriage to exude peace and love, and Winning Him Without Words will help you to create that environment in your homes and thrive as God works.

Authors’ Note…

Each of the 10 chapters provides a key principle to thriving in your spiritually mismatched marriage. Near the end of each chapter, we have included discovery questions designed to help move you closer to Christ and discover practical steps to grow in your marriage. We know it won’t be easy to look deeply into places that have lived in darkness…maybe for years, but the promise of freedom awaits. At the end of each chapter is a prayer of commitment to “seal the deal.” Make these prayers your own and then watch what God does. You will not be disappointed. God is anxiously waiting to unleash His wild hope in you and your marriage.

At the back of the book are additional resources for you to use on your journey: a discussion about children in a mismatched marriage, specific Scriptures shared by our readers that can bring comfort and hope as you pray them for your spouse and for yourself, and ideas for creating a family faith record so that one day you can share what your spouse missed before he came to faith. We have also included a study guide that can be used in a small-group setting.

Meet The Writers

Ann Hutchison is the Director of the Spiritually Unequal Marriage ministries. She is a contributing author, she also provides weekly video teaching, as well as overseeing all aspects of the ministry’s social media, email, and website management.

Ann resides in Auckland, New Zealand with her husband, two teenage boys, and sweet Persian cat. She loves chatting with friends, old and new, about life with God, and especially enjoys helping people recognize their unique God-given purpose. Apart from her faith life, her favorite interest is travelling to new places with her family.

Lynn Donovan is the Executive Director of Three Keys Ministries, a healing/deliverance prayer ministry, publishing house, and spiritual growth training center. Lynn writes regularly at Lynndonovan.com

In 2006 Lynn began SpirituallyUnequalMarriage.com, a world-wide community of believers who pray for the salvation of their spouses. She is an award-winning author, speaker, pastor and spiritual formation coach. Her passion is to lead believers into intimacy with God the Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit and into their full identity as a child of the Most High God.

To meet the rest of our team, click on "Meet The Team"

Start A Mismatched Marriage Ministry

Perhaps you have been called for such a time as this. Start a Mismatched Marriage Ministry in your community or local church. Download our free booklet, Creating and Building a Ministry For The Spiritually Mismatched. This booklet is filled with statistics, tips, and information to begin a local ministry. Pass it along to your Pastor or ministry team leader and members. Your life was intended to impact others with the love and hope of Jesus. Hugs, Lynn & Dineen

The Book

Authors’ Note…