Fifteen Years and Counting
Marriage Monday

He needs an Attractive Spouse

Today I want to return to our study of His Needs, Her Needs. Let’s look at His need for an attractive spouse.

Okay gals, this may not be easy. It is NOT fair but it is truth. Let’s get to it. Men are visual. They are stimulated by sight. It should come as no surprise they want – no need – an attractive spouse. I am talking physical attractiveness.

I am going to highlight just a few areas. This is a difficult subject and I highly recommend reading the book to understand the complexity of this chapter.

Dr. Harley points out the woman was once attractive but has become lazy. After the marriage vows, she lets herself go. With this said, Dr. Harley simply states: a woman should take pains to look something like the woman her husband married. When a man’s wife looks good, he feels good.

• Balance your intake of calories with the proper amount of exercise.
• Use make up to your advantage
• Hairstyle he likes
• Clothes showcase a woman

Attractiveness is what you do with what you have. An attractive woman is made, not born.

Next up: She needs financial support.

Have a blessed day. Lynn


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Lynn has wonderfully mapped out the steps we all need to walk through to develop and grow this vital relationship with Him. This was the Lord’s intent for her transformation journey all along, and His intent for you too. Here she has spelled out the spiritual truths behind the principles and talked us through how she applied them. These truths are universally applicable to us all, though as the details of our lives, situations and hearts will be different, we will apply them differently. - Reader Review from Barnes & Noble.

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