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Sex - What She needs to Know

I want to share an interesting conversation I had with the Psychologist who works with me here at Spiritually Unequal Marriage. We were talking about how women can spice up their husband's sex life in marriage.

Sexual relationships can become shipwrecked in many ways. Today I want to point out a common problem. Women, we have forgotten how to be feminine. Yes, our guys really do like feminine women.

How can we attain physical intimacy? TAKE BACK YOUR POWER OF FEMININITY!

1. Be the woman that your husband would want to make love to. Ephesians 4:29 (New International Version)
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

Men feel torn down by their own wives. Constant nagging, complaining, haranguing over and over wears down a man’s spirit. Yes, this detracts from the desire he feels in the bedroom.

He desires to be admired, respected and loved for who he is, especially by his soul-mate!!! Do we really get this? Memorize this verse in Ephesians make it your life goal. You hold all the power given to you by God to seduce your man and it starts by your words.

Here are what I call “Where the rubber meets the road” suggestions:
 Decrease criticism – Increase praise
 Say I love you often. Your spouse is not a mind reader.
 Spend time together alone without the kids.
 Verbally admire your spouses’ positive traits.
 R-E-S-P-E-C-T. I cannot over emphasize how important respect is to a man.
 Listen (really hear him) and understand his perspective. This will develop closeness

2. Look Feminine: Sexy jeans, a skirt, lip-gloss before he arrives home. Perfume to cover the throw-up smell, just kidding. Change the shirt. A little perfume always is feminine. If we look frumpy don’t expect your husband to be attracted.

Naked is always a good attraction. However, more important: Enthusiasm. Enthusiasm paired with your not so-perfect body trumps a slim airbrushed two-dimensional body any day. He will notice.

Inexpensive Suggestions:
 Add a new look or outfit you have not worn in a while
 Trench coat or fur coat (nothing under)
 Experiment with Saran Wrap.
 Add a new Place. Creates adventure
 Add a new position. Creates more adventure

Thank you, Rebecca for your insight and suggestions. The readers here and their spouses are truly grateful!

Be blessed, Lynn

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Marching Around Jericho is a spiritual guide. As you read through the pages, powerful and transformative instruction and equipping takes place. We follow Jesus as he leads us around the walls, imparting kingdom truths with each passing, finally arriving at the gates of the walled-off city, our spouse’s unbelieving heart. After the circles in prayer are complete, we arrive fully prepared to command the walls to crumble and be removed, making a way for our spouse to step from the rubble of lies and captivity, into faith and freedom!

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