Thankful Thursday
Could My Spouse Have An Affair?

Make a deposit in your Love Bank

So what is a love bank? Willard F. Harley, Jr. describes it this way:

Everyone Has a Love Bank

Figuratively speaking, I believe each of us has a Love Bank. It contains many different accounts, one for each person we know. Each person either makes deposits or withdrawals whenever we interact with him or her. Pleasurable interactions cause deposits, and painful interactions cause withdrawals. –His Needs, Her Needs.

Therefore, the deposits and withdrawals in an individuals love bank fluctuated continuously. Many people remain in the black while others cause the love bank to become overdrawn or RED.

How does the love bank work in marriage? We are going to look at that next. I have a challenge for us. Today make a concious effort to deposit in the love banks of your spouse and kids. Let me know what happens. Be blessed, Lynn

Also, you can find me today over at Laced With Grace: Intensely Yellow.

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