So what is a love bank? Willard F. Harley, Jr. describes it this way:
Everyone Has a Love Bank
Figuratively speaking, I believe each of us has a Love Bank. It contains many different accounts, one for each person we know. Each person either makes deposits or withdrawals whenever we interact with him or her. Pleasurable interactions cause deposits, and painful interactions cause withdrawals. –His Needs, Her Needs.
Therefore, the deposits and withdrawals in an individuals love bank fluctuated continuously. Many people remain in the black while others cause the love bank to become overdrawn or RED.
How does the love bank work in marriage? We are going to look at that next. I have a challenge for us. Today make a concious effort to deposit in the love banks of your spouse and kids. Let me know what happens. Be blessed, Lynn
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Lynn has wonderfully mapped out the steps we all need to walk through to develop and grow this vital relationship with Him. This was the Lord’s intent for her transformation journey all along, and His intent for you too. Here she has spelled out the spiritual truths behind the principles and talked us through how she applied them. These truths are universally applicable to us all, though as the details of our lives, situations and hearts will be different, we will apply them differently. - Reader Review from Barnes & Noble.